Dating a fat girl
None of us have a hard time getting dates, finding love, or sex, whatever it is we happen to be looking for.In our culture, people are taught, unfortunately, that being fat is bad. A fat person is just as worthy of love, respect, and kindness as any other person.You don’t have to state that you’re attracted to larger bodies. You talking to a fat girl, showing interest, and that says all we need to know! So if you see a fat chick you’re interested in, try to find some common ground and base conversation starters on that. There are probably things you haven’t thought about that she might be embarrassed about.
So during a first conversation, don’t qualify why you’re talking to her. Sometimes booths aren’t the best ideas at a restaurant. I knew that there was science to support the fact that men love a woman with a tummy, but I wanted to hear from the other side.And, just to be clear, the views of these men are not my views — or necessarily the views of Your Tango.This is loosely based on my own experiences as well as the experiences and suggestions of many girls I’ve talked to. You probably think that it’ll make fat girls more likely to contact you first, but honestly it’s hurting your cause more than anything. *(Note, saying things like ‘real women have curves’, ‘only dogs like bones’, ‘skinny girls are gross’ are horrible things to say. It may seem silly to mention, but it actually is important. There’s no special way you need to talk to them, no different procedure, here. Different fat girls have different experiences, but we’ve all experienced a lifetime of discrimination. Be aware that there’s a whole system of oppression working against her, and it’s hard sometimes. Different girls are at different stages of comfort and acceptance of their bodies (and frankly, that goes for all girls of all shapes and sizes! There’s never going to be a one-size-fits-all list, especially when talking about such a large group of people! ) But overall it just comes down to being sensitive, perceptive, and attentive. It makes you sound like all you care about is our bodies, that’s the most important part to you. You are more than welcome to have your preferences, but putting down other body types or other people’s preferences is NOT okay. ) Understand that some things are a little tougher for us.
A fat girl isn’t exactly what some men dream of dating.